Ok, this is probably going to sound rather cynical but the truth is todays society’s version of first impressions are based more on your looks than anything else such as behavior, intelligence and personality. I know we don’t want to accept that but it is fact. And it’s often the first impressions that make or break the relations with that person. Often when you see a ‘pretty’ face and they accidentally put their foot in their mouth, majority of people will just laugh it off because that person’s physical attractiveness outshines their behavior…. whereas, an ‘average’ looking person will often be singled out or ignored from that point onwards.
The physically ‘gifted’ are the people who are always promoted faster and get more social attention including dates. It’s not just the body shapes and fitness, but also the face. For those of us who have ever suffered from acne, we probably never got the kind of attention that the others with less to no blemishes had. It’s sad, I know. Actually, since I’m on the subject, I should mention that I recently found a good pore clearing treatment that’s been working for me for the last 2 months. My whole face has cleared up and now I can rub my forehead without feeling all those bumps and wanting to scratch it! I kinda  figured why not try fixing everything in that area of my life!! I even got a hair cut and colored.  Also, I’ve been making sure I get at least 7 hours sleep so the tired bruising under my eyes (black rings under my eyes) can start healing.

I actually found that pore clearing treatment  at this review site. My Acne Solution. You should check it out if you want more information .

Seriously, people feel a lot more comfortable around people who are comfortable about themselves and who ‘look good’.  Think about it.  If you have a bad odor or if you have acne or are overweight or if you’re just wearing clothes that don’t suit your body type, people can’t help but want to …. look at you… and start feeling uncomfortable.
Unfortunately in many cases, it’s the more attractive people that get promoted faster, get accepted etc than the ones that have the intellect and ability to do the jobs right (of course the ones with the smarts still get promoted but you can’t ignore the biased “pretty” votes).

Lower self esteems are often noticable through the persons looks. If you are unhappy with your weight, the acne on your face, your hair is too frizzy and whatnot, it can be noticable… usually because you play with it (hair) or try to hide it. It does pay to look good and to feel good about yourself.